Chewbacca thoughts to you and also with you

      So, I have been talking about the Margaret Cho references in my conversations with people for well over 5 years I think and came up with the concept of Chewbacca Thoughts to you, to which the reply is like Peace be with you, And also with you! 

      The comedian Margaret Cho has been a part of my life since the 90's when the GLBT community introduced her to me in Minneapolis Minnesota. Her humor has been a healing influence for most of my adult life. "I'm just greedy!" A phrase in reference to her choices in proclivities dealing with any gender is an honest humorous approach to maybe not having a specific preference for a particular flavor of person.  I started in the 90's saying I fall in love with the person not their parts my concept , idea and have never met anyone who can same it across the board: gender, nationality, sexuality, personality, religion, Atheism, agnostic, race, culture, creed,political affiliation, country, continent, familial connections, where you come from, socioeconomic status, city,looks as well, friends, power, job, none of it matters to me even to be friends. 

What matters is who you are, what you stand for, who you protect*, what you say, how you say it, who you say it to, what you write, what you believe, actions speak (as well as inactions) louder than words, what you do, what you don't do, if you allow others to control you, whether you allow others to question your good taste, whether you tolerate or perpetrate insults or being Flandered or a doormat or blamed or judgementalness or prejudicial or _______________, who you are is what matters. 

You have the ability to change who you are at any moment. You can say No, you can turn a new leaf, you can put up boundaries, you can leave somebody/some people/a community/ a country/ a group/a location/a job/a career/a company/ a service/ a family/ a friend/ a situation/______________ etc. Anybody has the strength to leave a situation or anything or anybody and choose a different life. I know that everybody has the strength and courage to be whoever it is that they need. If you need help then ask, and keep asking until you become* who you are. Authentically living means you are who you are, not who anybody else wants you to be, forces you to be, abuses you to be , bullys you to be, force creates you to be, conditions you to be, lies to you to be _____________, manipulates you to be, uses you to be, breaks you to be, causes you to suffer to be or inacts miseries upon you to be, kills you to be, hunts and stalks you to be, _______________. Nobody has the right to deny you of who you are, who you were, and who you have the endless possibilities and potential of being. 

     Chewbacca thoughts, refer to her reference of deep thinking, when deeply stoned in her case, "What would it be like to brush Chewbacca's hair? (When most stoned possibly) What would it be like to Flatiron Chewbacca's hair?". I added what would it be like to Perm , like the perms of my the grass is always greener on the other side youth with my straight hair, Chewbacca's hair. Jamaica added braids with beads green, yellow, and black (no particular order). Lenny Kravitz's ______________ said Chewbacca Fro. Somewhere in Africa is Chewbacca lokes. Hippies with backup put in for with guidance Chewbacca Dreds or Dreads. Asia added the traditional Chewbacca man bun for Sumo and a traditional Chewbaccian Singh* (h) Geisha updo or hairstyle. The world can create kinship over a loved and beloved movie character who did not speak English, had vocalizations that his Captain and partner Han could understand along with a few others after time and maybe experiences what was meant or implied.  

So in conclusion I hope that everyone and everybody of everywheres of everywheres can have at least one Chewbacca Thought a day that even gives a slightly altered perspective or smirk or laugh or twinkle* or _____________ to look beyond the surface of a seemingly ordinary or boring or stressful or frustrating or_______________ life, situation, experience, day, night, interaction*, place, or ___________________ and have the ability, maybe gain the talent to bounce when life ____________. Showing resistance to the turmoil of living in a slaved Existence,though can apply to anybody, being subjugated and forced to live for others is my life on a everyday basis, if I can survive then so can you. 

Chewbacca thoughts to you

I hope someday someone will say that in person to me , vocalized out of their mouth, face to face so the cowards behind the curtains of my life will either show themselves, show up, stand up, sit down, step up or back, shut up or speak up, or disappear forever from my life as I don't need anybody Claiming me, in a way that I would not appreciate, if you don't know what that means just ask me because people YOU DO and mostly DON'T Know me so don't NO me anymore and don't Know me either. 

®©®Jade Raven Pelton 5:24 pm CST